Aug 11Member-onlyA Young Father Loses His LifeA Teacher Remembers — Today, Facebook notified me that it was one of my former student’s birthdays. He would have been 30 years old today. I thought I would share a story I wrote about him (names have been changed): “I hate this kid!” José’s exasperation tumbled out after he finished reading the chapter aloud. I smiled, and tilted my head. I respected that José hated Holden. In fact, him hating Holden told me that he was paying attention. I was reading the book with a group of seniors who…Gangs5 min readGangs5 min read
Published inMiddle-Pause·Aug 5Member-onlyTrudeau, Tradition, and TinderCould Americans Embrace a Single President? — Yesterday, I awoke to the familiar vibrating of a CNN notification on my phone. I rolled over to look and read that Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau announced that he and his wife of 18 years were legally separating. …Trudeau4 min readTrudeau4 min read
Published inMiddle-Pause·Jul 29Member-onlyWhy Sinéad’s Death Feels So PersonalShe was us. — With Sinéad O’Connor’s death, another layer of grief settled into the nooks and crannies of my aging spirit. There was no surprise in it. I’d held a bit of space, expecting this news eventually—in the same way I had held space for the death of my ex-husband. An uneasy anticipation…Sinéad Oconnor4 min readSinéad Oconnor4 min read
Published inMiddle-Pause·Jun 28Member-onlyA Keeper of StoriesThe vault of a high school English teacher — I have been teaching for 16 years. This year, as I sat in the back of a Baptist church in Detroit at a funeral for a student’s mother, I thought about all the tragedies I have witnessed as a teacher. This Pastor invited my student to wail as the congregation…Teaching7 min readTeaching7 min read
Published inBouncin’ and Behavin’ Poems·Jun 20Member-onlyThe IllusionOh, to be that guy… the one with broad shoulders that keeps secrets well and processes feelings with calloused hands, through shooting baskets, or hammering nails, or shredding on a fender strat, rather than through endlessly spilling these useless words on page after page, or into the well-worn ears of tired friends…Poetry On Medium2 min readPoetry On Medium2 min read
Published inMiddle-Pause·Jun 11Member-onlyPathways and PotentialitiesI want to experience it all. I don’t want to miss a thing. — When Robert Frost talked about those two roads diverging, my first thought was, “Do I have to choose? Can’t I check out both?” Decision-making always provoked anxiety in me. As a teenager shopping for school clothes, I exhausted my mother, dragging her through every possible store, stressing out about how…Middle Age4 min readMiddle Age4 min read
Published inBouncin’ and Behavin’ Poems·Jun 11Member-onlyFOR MEYour presence has awakened something in me. Contrary to the story I was telling myself, I have learned that I Still Long to be loved. Even if you will shed this connection as easily as you shed your wool-lined coat, your care reminds me what it feels like to be cared for… reminds me what I’ve…Relationships2 min readRelationships2 min read
Published inBouncin’ and Behavin’ Poems·Apr 3Member-onlyReclamationThis house Smells like firewood and freedom reminds me of the year I Reclaimed my soul From the pinched face bleach blonde mean-girl boaters who love America and hate immigrants except for their Nona. …Power Of Poetry2 min readPower Of Poetry2 min read
Published inBouncin’ and Behavin’ Poems·Apr 1Member-onlyAstroA piece about emerging from a time of hibernation — This bass reminds me of a shape I once took and this guitar of that time I believed you were magic. …Poetry2 min readPoetry2 min read
Published inBouncin’ and Behavin’ Poems·Feb 3Member-onlyGilded CarriageYou said I must be a witch but It was you, running your warm hands across my sternum, pressing my small wrists between your thumbs, that put a spell on me. I thought you were a good decision. Instead of guitar strings, your fingers pressed computer keys; eyes scanning black and white…Poetry1 min readPoetry1 min read